Love Hurts.....

To love is something,
to be loved is another thing,
but,
to love and be loved is the thing!!!

how much do you agree or disagree with this saying???

we spend all our lives saying we want to find love...
nothing wrong with it, right?
well,
no,this is wrong.
finding love is not that easy.
lets say you finally found the one that you love,
the one that God created him or her just for you,
lets wait for a second and look for what you said.
you loved that guy or that girl, lets say you found your soul mate,
he or she will be everything in your life from now on.
You will do anything and every thing just for your soul mate.
will this be enough for the other part??
you never thought of this, right?
will,

finding who you will give all your life for is not enough, you know why?
cause you have to be sure about the other part and his needs too.
will that one be able to do the same for you?
will that other part sacrifice every thing just to be with you too??
you'll simply know the answer if you know if that other part in love with you in the same level.

weird?
funny?
lol
no, don't think that.

this is hard.
here is the question.

the one you loved- willing to give all your life and every thing you have just to be with him or her-is he or she loves you too???

you don't like what i'm saying here?
OK!

lets take it from another point of view....

if you met someone...

and that one loves you.
In love with you....

will that be enough for you to give back same feelings??
in the same level too??

now that's harder...

cause now you are in the opposite side.

before you judge your supposed lover...

lets think first.

will my love be enough for him or her??
will all what i have in my heart will be enough to satisfy the other part??

I will never be embarrassed from some dear friend or any nice person that i met in my life,
that might have such feelings for me,
if i didn't have the same feelings too.

i will step a head and be honest with him and tell him the truth.
how hard that will be, i prefer not to let the other one live in a dream.
a dream that will change one day to be the worst nightmare!!!

I believe now that being in love is something,
and being loved is another thing,
but,
loved and being in love is the thing that we all are dreaming and seeking for.

I wish i see your comments here,
i wish to know what do you think too...

thanks for being here and taking from your time to read this post.

it really hurt what life do with people.

why we always fell with the wrong people all the time??

deel
this is avery big object but thank u for this object